解讀老板的“話中話”

　　來解讀一下老板的“話中話”，你是否也曾經(jīng)聽過呢?

　　YOUR BOSS SAYS: "Too edgy"

　　老板說：太急躁了

　　WHAT IT MEANS: Plainly put, you're not friendly enough. Managers don't see you as approachable, which may be hindering your career.

　　背后含義是：老實說，你不夠友善。經(jīng)理們覺得你不容易靠近，這種看法或許會阻礙你的職業(yè)生涯。

　　Quick fix: Smile more and make an effort at deskside chitchat.

　　補(bǔ)救辦法：多微笑，試著與別人多聊天。

　　YOUR BOSS SAYS: "Lack impact"

　　老板說：印象不深

　　WHAT IT MEANS: Shyness (being passive in meetings, waiting to be asked questions) can be confused with indifference. As a result, others don't solicit your opinions.

　　背后含義是：膽怯(在會議中不積極，等著被問問題)會讓別人誤認(rèn)為冷漠。結(jié)果別人不會再征求你的'看法。

　　Quick fix: Swallow your anxieties and pipe up with ideas.

　　補(bǔ)救辦法：放下焦慮擔(dān)心，說出自己的想法。

　　YOUR BOSS SAYS: "Too emotional"

　　老板說：太感情用事了

　　WHAT IT MEANS: You gesticulate and raise your voice when championing ideas, which suggests you're not in control.

　　背后含義是：當(dāng)討論觀點(diǎn)時你手勢過多還提高音量，會讓別人認(rèn)為自我控制力不夠。

　　Quick fix: Make more eye contact and use just one hand to reinforce your points - it's not as pushy.

　　補(bǔ)救辦法：有更多眼神交流，在強(qiáng)調(diào)觀點(diǎn)時用一只手輔助即可——這樣顯得不是那么強(qiáng)勢。

　　YOUR BOSS SAYS: "Too laid-back"

　　老板說：太松散了

　　WHAT IT MEANS: You may not be dressing professionally, are overly familiar with colleagues, or don't convey a sense of urgency about work.

　　背后含義是：你可能穿的不職業(yè)化、和同事混的太熟、沒有傳達(dá)出對工作的緊張和重視。

　　Quick fix: Step up your game with a new suit, quit schmoozing, and walk with purpose.

　　補(bǔ)救辦法：穿新的職業(yè)裝繼續(xù)工作進(jìn)程、不再閑談、明確目標(biāo)。

　　YOUR BOSS SAYS: "Too risky"

　　老板說：太冒險了

　　WHAT IT MEANS: Your idea of innovation may not align with your company's vision. Your big ideas may be unworkable.

　　背后含義是：你創(chuàng)新的想法可能與公司目標(biāo)不一致。你驚天動地的想法或許行不通。

　　Quick fix: Watch the office all-star and what elements of her pitches perk the boss's ears.

　　補(bǔ)救辦法：觀察辦公室紅人的做事方法，以及老板會采納她哪些方面的建議。

　　YOUR BOSS SAYS: "Need to be more assertive"

　　老板說：要更獨(dú)斷

　　WHAT IT MEANS: Your voice is not projecting confidence - you speak too softly, engage in baby talk, or end every statement with a question mark.

　　背后含義是：你的聲音聽起來并不自信——說話沒底氣，有無關(guān)緊要的話，或者每個觀點(diǎn)都以問句結(jié)尾。

　　Quick fix: Raise your voice, enunciate, and stop doubting yourself.

　　補(bǔ)救辦法：提高音量、清晰表達(dá)、別再懷疑自己。

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